Friday, October 16, 2009

Blaming Mind (Nature of Mind)

It is proved and observed by modern science, that human behavior is quite complicated and incomplete. Even spiritual science addressed about human tendency. We will discuss here about one of the biggest human tendencies ‘blame game’. They find someone to blame when bad thing happen. Generally it is seen in children but if it increases in adult and old age then called behavioral problem. Actually this is an easiest way to justify the mistakes that they themselves make. They don’t want to do anything but the expectations are high to another’s. The spiritual fact is this, their mind is totally dependent on situation, angel of thinking about object, is totally based on present situation, less responsibility, less facing capacity and finally lack of positive attitude.
When son of Mahatma Gandhi, drunk openly outside of the road and opted Muslim religion, then Gandhi told; it is my fault because I was not very positive mind during the pregnancy of mother. That’s why he born with bad sanskara. And his son blamed him whole life for his bad life.
If you shift the whole responsibility of your personal life to others, then it means you will be blaming to others in the future. Parents need to change this type of negative blaming attitude of their children. Teen ager should also focus on their selves.
I am giving here some tips bellow which will be very effective for improving our whole personality.
“Enthusiasm, perseverance, discrimination, unshakeable faith, courage, keeping in touch with positive people (are the six pillars) which bring normal behavior” along with these are a few very helpful aids.
•Healthy interaction
•Positive Attitude
•Breathing technique
•Meditation
•Unshakable Faith
•Courage
•Reading Spiritual books
These seven factors can be cultivated anywhere, whether living in the city with your family or alone in a hermitage.
Everybody needs healthy interaction but blaming mind should especially practice this. Without healthy interaction, positive attitude can never come. Breathing (Anulom Vilom Pranayam) and meditation (Chaitanya meditation) helps to increase positivity in our mind, so let practice this.